It's very sad but the system doesn't treat men and women equally when it comes to children. It's like how men are significantly less likely to receive sole custody of their own children even if the mother isn't contributing anything positive to the children.

I agree with you completely that men should have the right to choose. It's disgusting how many women think they are going to "keep their man" if they "trap him" with a pregnancy. I've seen it happen. It's horrible and shameful and yet there is nothing that protects men from such situations.